Breakups & EX

Do you have a big heart? I mean, are you good at loving people? If so, your ex would be crazy not to let you back into his life. Here’s why. They say the meaning of life is to find your gift. And the purpose of your life is to give it away. But in order to give away your gift, someone must receive it. So who should you give it to? I think you already know the answer. But we’ll come back to that in just a sec. Because, first I need to make a prediction. I predict you … Read more

Break ups are hard, especially if they should not have happened in the first place. Recognizing the signals and rectifying any issues is key number one to avoiding a break up. But sometimes our busy lives can cause us to miss those signals and then all of a sudden, it seems, you’re blindsided. Left in shock, wondering what happened and clueless to how this all happened and we now are searching for ways on how to win him back. signals Well, now that it’s happened, it’s time to get busy and figure out how to win him back. Again, first … Read more

If you had something beautiful going with your ex… And you know you could be great together… Then it’s worth taking one more shot at rekindling the romance with him. Because an emotional connection like that doesn’t happen every day. It’s worth fighting for. Pause for just a minute to answer this question. What’s the one obstacle to getting back together with your ex? What’s the one thing getting in the way? If you’re like most women, your answer would go something like this: “The biggest obstacle is getting past his emotional walls.” You see, the problem isn’t making him … Read more

You turn on the radio and most likely you will hear a song about someone cheating, someone breaking up with someone, or getting over someone. The music industry makes massive amounts of money playing up to women and men who have broken hearts and all the reasons why. Some of these songs will tell people to go out and find a new man, find a new woman, play the field, or even get revenge cutting their tires and smashing their windows.   But while these songs might make us feel better in the short term, it is temporary. Recovering from … Read more

Think about it carefully and weigh the pros and cons. When you get to the point of thinking about divorce, it is helpful to consider carefully what is about to happen, and to make a list of the advantages and disadvantages of staying together against the advantages and disadvantages of divorcing. These might be of various sorts, and at different timescales: for example, you might consider the situation in five years’ time, and look at what this would be like (a) if a divorce had gone ahead or (b) if you had stayed together. To take a common example of … Read more

In other posts on this blog we’ve talked about the differences between sexual drive, sexual desire, sexual arousal and orgasm. To briefly remind ourselves: Sexual drive is a biologically determined need for sexual release, which is partly based on testosterone, especially in males, and there are differences between men and women in the way that sexual drive is expressed. Men seem to be more spontaneous and self-motivated in their sexual needs, and require a regular outlet (perhaps in self-stimulation) if they are not going to be frustrated; while women can enjoy sex just as much, and perhaps more, but can … Read more

Moving after a failed relationship can be difficult. You still feel them in your heart, you miss them every day and you may still be struggling to figure out what went wrong and why it blew up. You may have pictures, or constant reminders of them around your house, or on your phone. You need to decide when/where/how to get rid of those reminders so you can slowly work on moving on. A new person isn’t going to want to come in, and feel like they are being compared to your ex constantly, or like they come second to a … Read more

Television and movies are rife with clichés and myths about love. Let’s take a look at some of these myths and what’s really true about them. Save MYTH 1: Love is blind. The thought behind this myth is that if he truly loves you, he will overlook all your flaws (and you will overlook his). This might be true during the “honeymoon” phase of a relationship, but that stage doesn’t last forever. The Reality: The reality is that we all have flaws. It’s often said that what attracts us in the beginning is the thing we most resent or that drives … Read more